Destiny Holmes

Overcoming Depression: My Journey Towards Personal Growth

Are you looking for ways to not only become better but feel better about who you are?

Diving into the big world of self development and starting your personal growth journey is the way to go.

My journey towards personal growth actually not only helped me better myself but it set the stage for me to overcome depression, domestic abuse, and social anxiety.

What is self-development?

Self development is the active pursuit of advancing our mental, emotional, and physical selves so we can achieve self fulfillment. It’s the process of learning new things and developing new skills in each of these areas so that you can live a fulfilling and meaningful life.


4 Steps I Took On My Journey Towards Personal Growth

Discover Yourself

Self discovery is the prerequisite of self improvement. You are an ever-changing being who is constantly curating your preferences based on the experiences you have. Self discovery helps you keep fresh eyes and continue to learn yourself so you can make decisions that are right for you.

When you are aware of who you are you can easily navigate what to learn, develop, and improve within your character. One of the best ways to discover yourself is through journaling.

By journaling for self-understanding and awareness I was able to take control of my life and define who I was going to be, what I was going to do, and what I was allowed to have.

Try New Things

When I first met my husband, he would often say “The magic happens outside your comfort zone.” He’s totally right. It does!

A few years ago, I decided it was time to let my social anxiety go and made the decision to put myself in uncomfortable situations and try new things. As I continuously did this, eventually I was able to go out on my own without overthinking and experiencing crippling anxiety. I started my own endeavors, made my own friends, and got completely comfortable standing out on my own.

When you try new things you are opening yourself to a ton of possibilities. You may discover new interests, overcome fears, meet new people, spark your creativity, or develop new skills.

What is something new you can try this week?

Create A Movement Routine

Developing yourself physically is an easy way to get started on your personal growth journey and may provide you with a boost of confidence, more energy, and a clearer mind.

At the beginning of my journey, creating a movement routine was one of the first things I did. Working out helped me gain discipline and gave me something to look forward to. I’m a firm believer that if you look good you feel good but most importantly the feel-good part.

Set Goals

Honestly, for years I didn’t have many goals. I was very content with my life and it suited me. It wasn’t until I took full control of my life and the direction I was heading in that I started to set goals. Setting goals has allowed me to accomplish way more than I was in route for.

When you set goals you are committed to ensuring that your efforts are followed through on. You can set a goal to try one of these four things and you’ll be on to self-improvement in no time.


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    Mistakes people make while on their personal growth journey

    There’s no way I’m going to tell you how to start on your self-development journey without also warning you what not to do on the way. These simple yet very common mistakes can keep you behind when you’re working on self-improvement.

    Following Every Trend

    One of the easiest ways that will slow you down on your journey of growth is doing what you see everyone else is doing. Your personal growth journey is unique to you. Stay true to yourself and do what works for you. As you discover yourself you will learn what does and doesn’t work for you and if you keep track of that it will save you from wasting a lot of time copying everyone else.

    Comparing Your Progress To Others

    We have all heard comparison is the thief of joy. If you want to have a sense of peace and remain proud of yourself throughout your personal growth journey, don’t compare your journey to someone else’s. Compare your journey to where you were before and you will find fulfillment in what you can control.

    Spend Too Much Time Researching

    When first starting anything new it’s common to want to know more. But this need to know more can turn into analysis paralysis. That’s when you do too much research without taking action. Is this the 4th self-improvement blog you’ve read? Well, it’s time to take a break from researching and implement one of the hacks above.

    If you’re ready to begin your personal growth journey now, ask yourself these two questions, why do you want to get started on your self-development journey and what is one thing that you can start to do today?

    My journey towards personal growth has led me to become a better person 10x and I hope you will do the same for you.

    11 thoughts on “Overcoming Depression: My Journey Towards Personal Growth”

    1. I love how you spoke about mistakes people make on their personal growth journey. These are things I’ve been guilty of in the past and as I work through them find so much more happiness and growth. Great post!

      1. Yes! Knowing the mistakes are so important! I’m glad to hear you’ve been growing through them.

    2. I think so many people forget who they are as the years go on and responsibilities pile up. Thank you for this reminder

    3. Lots of great tips. I especially found the tips on setting goals helpful.

    4. great post! I am definitely guilty of over-researching, haha.

      1. Destiny Holmes

        Thank you, Erin! It’s your first step. Accepting that you really are guilty of over-researching is already a good start. I hope you overcome depression. Do not lose hope and just embrace personal growth.

    5. I really enjoyed reading through your post and it was clearly set and out and understandable for someone who might be beginning their self development journey.

      1. Destiny Holmes

        Hi, Deanne! It’s great to know that journaling is also essential to your self development. It’s nice to keep track of our daily accomplishments and our feelings.

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